Beartooth frontman Caleb Shomo has revealed that he is gay after being married to his wife Fleur Shomo for almost 14 years.
“I’m proud to be gay,” he wrote on Instagram on May 23. “This is something I’ve been figuring out and thinking about for quite some time in my life.”
The musician admitted that he hid his “feelings” with alcohol before “quitting alcohol” and focusing on finding a “direct path” to reconciling with his sexuality.
“I’ll follow you everywhere and I won’t water down any part of it, from the music to the lyrical content to the way I portray myself,” Caleb continued.
Former Attack Attack! The singer has received support from his wife, who said on Instagram that it has been a “very disorienting and difficult time to overcome.”
Scroll to learn more about Fleur.
she is an actress
In April 2026, Fleur revealed that she was a background character in season 2 of the HBO series The Pit.
“I just want to say how amazing it was to be a small part of this groundbreaking show,” she wrote on Instagram, alongside a photo of herself as a patient in a hospital bed.
“I spent four months on set as a backdrop, and I think I spent almost all of that time watching, learning, and absorbing everything I could.”
Fluor praised the “incredibly rare” opportunity and expressed her desire to return for season 3 as a nurse.
she is a podcaster
Fluer previously hosted the “My Top 5” podcast from 2019 to 2022.
She and co-host Luke meet almost every week to discuss several topics, from the “Top 5” of their favorite guests to the “Top 5 Refrigerator Essentials.”
Their last episode was in April 2022, which was supposed to be “Summer Vacation.”
She married Caleb in 2012
In December 2025, Fleur celebrated her and Caleb’s 13th wedding anniversary with a sweet tribute on Instagram.
“Today marks 13 years of marriage,” she wrote alongside a photo of herself and the musician.
“And I wouldn’t change a thing. You’re still my favorite person and you make me laugh more than anyone else. We love you. You’re always my main lemon. You’re a great sauce. And I love you. 🖤”
Caleb accepted his sexuality
On May 23, 2026, Caleb proudly embraced his sexuality and vowed to live his life “wholeheartedly and fully.”
“I will only do what makes me happy on the deepest level and the most honest expression of who I am,” he said in a statement.
“I don’t think it’s possible to love every part of yourself unless you face every part of yourself head on. I’m finally at the point where I’m proud of who I am, and I think this is a big part of that journey.”
Fleur supports her husband
Shortly after Caleb posted his statement, Fleur took to Instagram to show her support, along with photos and videos of them from over the past year.
“I will continue to love, protect and support Caleb,” she wrote. “For many years, I cared about his health more than anything else in the world.”
Fleur said she saw Caleb’s “confusion and pain” but didn’t know how to help him.
“There’s nothing I want more than for the other person to be safe,” she continued. “Also, thinking about what this means for your world and the anger that you feel as well makes you constantly ask yourself if you’re a bad person.”
Fleur continued: “I’m the only one who has to deal with the duality of this situation. Supporting him while losing everything has been incredibly difficult.”
“There’s no need to question[their]history,” she said, calling their marriage “amazing and full of so much fun, adventure and love.”
